Are you thinking about home health care for your parent or loved one as a solution to providing help with daily activities such as bathing, meal preparation, and housekeeping? Many older individuals benefit from receiving assistance in the comfort of their own homes, allowing them to maintain their independence longer. But, after your loved one agrees to at-home care, carefully consider all the factors involved before you hire a home health aide.
Let’s face it, bringing a stranger into your loved one’s home is a big change. So, to help with a smooth transition and prevent problems from occurring down the road, here are a few steps you can take to ensure your loved one feels totally comfortable with all aspects of this new arrangement.
Establishing a Routine
Start by meeting with the case manager from the home health care agency when he or she comes to your loved one’s home for an assessment of services needed. At the initial evaluation, it is important that you ask questions so that you understand what type of care is available, and for how many hours a day or week.
Upon agreement with your loved one, the schedule may look like this: On Monday, Wednesday, and Friday at 9:00 a.m., a home health aide comes to help with bathing, dressing, grocery shopping, and light housekeeping; a visiting nurse arrives at 1:00 p.m. on Tuesdays to check vital signs, medication, and to address any other health concerns; and/or a physical therapist comes on Thursdays at 11 a.m. to establish an exercise program.
Meeting the Home Health Aide
In addition to scheduling physical and medical needs, the agency will assign a caregiver based on compatible personalities and shared interests. But, it is essential for you to attend the home health aide’s first visit. Check in with your loved one after the aide leaves to see if he or she feels comfortable with the agency’s match. Be sensitive to whatever objections your loved one may have, and communicate that to the agency so they can select another candidate. Agencies are aware of this potential problem, and usually will provide a suitable replacement.
There may be occasions when a substitute aide is sent if the regular caregiver is sick, or a new caregiver may be assigned to the case for other reasons. Find out what contingency plans the agency has in place under these circumstances. Confirm that you will be contacted ahead of time before an unfamiliar person unexpectedly knocks on your loved one’s door. Sometimes, scheduling mishaps occur, for example an aide may not show up at the appointed hour, and there is no communication with anyone. To avoid causing unnecessary stress, you can prepare your loved one for this possibility by talking about it in advance and creating a back-up plan with the agency.
Many elderly people form special bonds with their aides over time and greatly benefit from the social companionship in their own familiar environment. The success of a home health care plan will depend to a large extent on sensitivity to your loved one’s comfort level. By taking the time to find the best fit in caregivers, you will be helping to ensure quality care and comfort for your loved one.